Ask and you shall have.

There is a slight caveat, though.  What you focus on is what you get.  So if you’re asking for “No Something,” Something is precisely what you get.

This is a lesson.

In the last year, I have surrounded myself with, “No-drama” or “Drama-free.”  Unfortunately, when you live by that rule, that is precisely what you get… you get people trying to avoid drama, and in turn, covering up the things that could possibly lead to drama.  You get important things left un-addressed.  You get people avoiding real human experience for fear of alienating themselves from drama.

Which… inevitably leads to….. Drama.

Okay.  So, lesson noted. 

Now, I have changed my tune.  It was a good experience to try the drama-free diet, but now I’m a firm believer in acting out of LOVE.  I live on a high love-diet. It makes sense, really.  If you are acting out of love, there isn’t going to be drama, right?  Nothing will turn out poorly if your focus is love.

There are a million applications for me to change my tune by.  There are million goals I can set my mind upon and have, as long as I eliminate the interference focal points.   This is a work in progress.  I am quite certain I can do it!

So… in my focus is love.  It is my new lens. 

In my love-filled focus, there is no sacrifice.  Everything I do is guided with the map of love.  All of the hard work I put into this life is done because I love what I do.  All of the lessons I willingly encounter because I love to learn.  It’s not been terribly long since I’ve discovered this, but I can feel the change inside of me already.   I’ll have to let you know how this goes for me.

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