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Posted in: Perspective, Self Awareness by POHA on January 16, 2008
One of the strangest things about this experience are the interactions we have with other people.
In the last six months, I have struggled to understand why I get the feeling that people come and go in my life. Perhaps it is because in the past I have affirmed it, and because I believed it, that was what has happened. Perhaps this is just How It IS. People come and go. Obviously the saying wouldn’t be so cliche’ had it never held some sort of truth.
I think the greatest challenge for me in coming to terms with the temporary nature of some relationships is that I often put huge amounts of energy into people. After the person has left my life, I sometimes feel like the energy spent was a waste. It’s not to say an ended relationship is an inevitable, rather, it is/was a possibility.
This is not to say I necessarily feel regret over the energy spent– I believed that the energy was well spent at the time that I expended it.
I suppose the best way to be okay with these “lost” relationships is to realize that one can never own anything– neither a person nor a relationship. Everything serves its purpose, and as long as I am able to appreciate the lesson offered from each person, it only makes sense that I would be comfortable with the ebb and flow of the relational experience.
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I tried to chat at you, but it keeps calling me a spammer
Just wanted to stop in and say HI!
Comment by Ryan — January 17, 2008 @ 10:41 pm
Hmmmm. Chat isn’t working right now. Saying *I’m* a spammer too. I need to look into that!!!! Hello!
Comment by POHA — January 18, 2008 @ 8:10 am