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Posted in: Life, Self Awareness by POHA on February 22, 2008
Letting go… it’s a bittersweet.
It’s the fine line between “Is this relationship worth it to me?” or “It’s not worth it.”
If it’s worth the battle, you should battle for it, no? If it’s not worth it, you cut your losses and move forward. Is the behavior observed within the Final battle more valuable than all the previous behaviors from before, when you were getting along fine?
All of these decisions. All of these losses…
I’m reminded of how joyous a reunion between old friends can be. And reminded of how painful it is to initiate working things out in order to discover that the other party is completely unwilling to come to an agreement. Something was said or done that was SO hurtful that one party can never forgive it. Or forget it. Decreases the value of said relationship.
How does one take a temperature gauge when you never communicate with the other person(s)?
Ultimately, what one must determine is how much energy they are willing to give it. Do you think they will be willing to rehash things until there’s a blank slate? Do you want to give that much of yourself to do the same?
How would one even begin to approach the breeched confidence?
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